Talkin’ ‘Bout My Generation

A few weeks ago, my former mentor and I had a friendly debate about one of her new employees. This “young kid” - as she put it - fresh off an internship thinks he can run the entire office. He’s only been an employee for 3 weeks (her exact words were “a whole 15 days”) and he’s ready to advance to the next level. I explained that he is just an ambitious young man who is excited about his new position, and if given the opportunity and guidance, he could accomplish great things. 

She rolled her eyes and smugly retorted, “I knew you’d say that. You Millennials are all cut from the same naïve cloth. Come talk to me in 20 years when a kid with next-to-no experience strolls into your office and demands to be promoted.”

Even though I was mildly offended, I knew I wouldn’t win the argument, so I humbly bowed out. Two days later, just to drive her point home, she sent me an article entitled “Managing the ‘Me First’ Generation”, which discusses the workplace power struggle between Boomers and Millennials. For those of you who aren’t up on your demographic lingo, a Boomer - or Baby boomer - is anyone born between 1946 and 1964. Millennials - or Generation Y - are those born after 1982.

Being a proud Millennial, I found some parts of the article validating. It points out that most of my generation was raised on a healthy dose of self-esteem from our über supportive parents who incessantly told us that we could do anything. Imagine being conditioned to think that way for more than 20 years. When we enter the workforce, we naturally think that no task is beyond our skill set - regardless of how limited that skill set may be. Now imagine the sheer terror and frustration we feel when our bubble is burst.

I understand this mindset can lead to some rather difficult challenges for our Boomer managers - who coincidently are from the same demographic as the parents who helped foster this attitude. Pretty funny, huh? 

Much like the author of the article, I am here to offer advice to all Boomers who are going bald from the stress of wrangling in Millenials. Are you ready? Take a chill pill. It’s that easy.

We may bring a hint of informality to stuffy - I mean traditional - work environments. And occasionally, we may have a misplaced sense of entitlement when it comes to leadership positions. However, we are fearless risk takers who are eager to tackle any project put in front of us. We crave training and opportunities to learn from you because we want to grow professionally. We just need you to be a little patient with us as we experience our growing pains. And, it couldn’t hurt for you to acknowledge that you were once in our shoes.

I hope this insight into the mind of a Millennial has given you Boomers some comfort. And if it doesn’t, know that in about 20 years, we Millennials will be going through the same thing.